You’ve done the talking.
Now experience the healing.

IFS, EMDR and Somatic Therapy for Queer and Trans Folx and People who Love Them

It’s hard to be human right now. To heal, you need a space that really gets you.


Welcome! I’m Eula Lys Dunkin (they/he). I'm trans, and embrace a radical, liberatory lens that celebrates trans, gender expansive, queer, poly, kinky folx, those in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and those who love them.

Find about more about
who I am, what I offer, and schedule a free consultation call when you’re ready to take the next step towards transformation.

A photo of Eula Lys Dunkin, a trans nonbinary IFS and somatic therapist, in their virtual office

Transformation and healing are possible

You’ve done talk therapy. You’ve spent enough time thinking about your own story.

You’re ready for therapy that goes beyond the talking.

You keep it together on the outside, but inside you’re feeling stuck in the patterns you feel you can’t control.

You’re ready to learn tangible tools to get out of the patterns and build the life you want.

You feel disconnected from yourself. It’s hard to sit with your own feelings.

You’re ready for lasting real, lasting change. You’re ready for freedom and liberation. We’ll do it together.

You don’t need to know how to “do” therapy, or about any of the modalities I use, to work with me. We collaborate together, holding your humanity above any particular theory. You also don’t need to be queer or trans, although I specialize in working with these communities and am trans myself!

Together, we’ll create a space that fits you and fosters lasting change.

Some of the things I specialize in

  • Trauma: CPTSD, developmental, and intergenerational trauma

  • Gender expansive communities: Support navigating gender affirming care, supporting marginalization, navigating dysphoria, and accessing gender joy even when times are tough

  • Identity exploration: Folx exploring their sexuality, gender identity, and relationship with queerness, kink, BDSM and polyamory

  • Grief: Pain related to loss, life transitions, environmental grief, and the collective grief in the world right now

  • Anxiety and depression: We’ll go beyond the symptoms to find tangible tools and relief

  • Therapy for healers: Therapy for therapists and those who work in the healing professions

Book a free consultation call

See my services tabs for more information on the therapy, coaching and consultation services I provide.

To book a free 15-minute video consultation:
Email me at eula@therapywitheulalys.com
Text or call me at 415-322-5867.

Not sure what a consultation call is? Read my blog post to learn about what it’s like to start therapy with me.

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