You’ve done the talking.
Now go deeper.

IFS, EMDR and Somatic Therapy for Queer and Trans Folx and People who Love Them

It’s hard to be human right now. To heal, you need a space that really gets you.


Welcome! I’m Eula Lys Dunkin (they/them). I'm trans, nonbinary, and embrace a radical, liberatory lens that celebrates trans, gender expansive, queer, poly, kinky folx, those in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and those who love them.

Find about more about
who I am, what I offer, and schedule a free consultation call when you’re ready to take the next step towards transformation.

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Transformation and healing are possible

You’ve done talk therapy. You’ve spent enough time thinking about your own story.

You’re ready for therapy that goes beyond the talking.

You keep it together on the outside, but inside you’re feeling stuck in the patterns you feel you can’t control.

You’re ready to learn tangible tools to get out of the patterns and build the life you want.

You feel disconnected from yourself. It’s hard to sit with your own feelings.

You’re ready for lasting real, lasting change. You’re ready for freedom and liberation. We’ll do it together.

Therapy that affirms and transforms

Using a queer lens, along with Internal Family Systems, somatic therapy and EMDR, we thoughtfully bear witness to the wisdom and stories that your parts are holding, creating space for deep, healing, and lasting change.

I specialize in:

  • Trauma: CPTSD, developmental, and intergenerational trauma

  • Gender expansive communities: Support navigating gender affirming care, supporting marginalization, navigating dysphoria, and accessing gender joy even when times are tough

  • Identity exploration: Folx exploring their sexuality, gender identity, and relationship with queerness, kink, BDSM and polyamory

  • Grief: Pain related to loss, life transitions, environmental grief, and the collective grief in the world right now

  • Anxiety and depression: We’ll go beyond the symptoms to find tangible tools and relief

  • Therapy for healers: Therapy for therapists and those who work in the healing professions

Book a free consultation call

See my services tab for more information on the therapy, coaching and consultation services I provide.

To book a free 15-minute consultation:
Email me at eula@therapywitheulalys.com
Text or call me at 415-322-5867.

Not sure what a consultation call is? Read my blog post to learn about what it’s like to start therapy with me.

Therapy by us and for us

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T4T Meditations

We all need a space to slow down. Trans and gender expansive folx also deserve a space where they can access meditations unique to their experience and their bodies.

I’ve started a series of T4T meditations created for trans and gender expansive folx. I upload new ones regularly, and post them via my newsletter as well as on my website. These meditations are free of charge, and I provide some accessibility options in each recording.

Click here to access all the meditations in one place on my website.

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