Queerly Embodied Therapy

Somatic and IFS informed therapy

Slowing down and bearing witness to the stories our bodies hold is a radical act of love and liberation.
Let’s do it together.

Hi, I’m Eula Lys (they/them)

Welcome. It's hard to be human right now. You deserve a space that gets you and honors your identities.

I'm trans, nonbinary, and embrace a radical, liberatory lens that celebrates trans, gender expansive, queer, poly, kinky folx, those in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and those who love them.

Read more about my offerings below.

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Create your space for lasting change

You’ve done the talking. You know your story. And you’re ready to go deeper. Not just to heal trauma, but to imagine new ways of being with yourself.

Maybe you’ve done talk therapy before. Maybe you feel like you know your story on an intellectual level, but still feel stuck in the same patterns and relational cycles. Maybe you feel like you’ve talked about your trauma, but haven’t been able to move past the pain that lives deep inside.

I’ve been there, and have experienced firsthand the lasting change and healing that occurs when we bear witness to all our internal parts. Using a queer lens, along with Internal Family Systems and somatic therapy, we slow down together and bear witness to the deep wisdom and stories that our parts are holding. And we create space for deep healing and lasting change.

I specialize in working with:

  • Trans and gender expansive folx who want support navigating gender affirming care, the current political climate, accessing gender joy, navigating gender dysphoria, and finding an affirming space to feel supported in your gender journey

  • Folx who are interested in exploring their sexuality, gender identity, and relationship with kink, BDSM and polyamory

  • Folx who experienced trauma, and who are ready to go beyond the intellectual story, shift old patterns, and experience authentic healing

  • Folx who feel like they have to keep it all together on the outside, but on the inside feel like they’re struggling to stay afloat

  • Folx to learn how to feel and be with their feelings, regain connection to their bodies, and learn tangible tools to that provide lasting change

Therapy by us and for us

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  • I get how exhausting it can be to find supportive spaces where you have the freedom to let your identity expand and evolve. To be able to let down the mask and feel safe enough to truly explore the parts of you that are longing to be seen.

    I welcome folx from queer, trans, gender expansive, kink, polyamorous and activist communities. Together, we co-create a space where you can slow down, tune into your self, and experience authentic change.

    I use a lens that incorporates somatic therapy and Internal Family Systems. If you don’t know what those modalities are, don’t worry. You don’t need to know anything about them to start therapy with me!


  • As a trans, non-binary therapist, I hold how systems of oppression and transphobia impact how gender expansive and queer folx feel about our bodies. I honor where you are moment-by-moment and give your body and mind space to feel.

    I hold space where we can name and acknowledge systems of oppression in our therapy space and talk about the stories and experiences our bodies hold because of them.

    The systems in which our bodies are living in are not separate from our internal world and ancestral lineages. Liberation oriented therapy honors this ecosystem.

    Bottom line: We can be real and talk about the hard stuff within the context of our current and past political realities.


  • I hold a space that is consent-based. You are the expert in your own experience and I believe that with enough support, curiosity and care, your system will guide us toward what it needs to heal.

    I'm not a therapist who aims to fix you or find solutions. Instead, we create a space where you can learn how to be with your emotions and body sensations, and reconnect to your own inner strength and agency.


Book a free consultation call


See my services tab for more information on the therapy, coaching and consultation services I provide.

To book a free 15-minute consultation, you can:
Email me
Send me a message via my website
Book Online

Not sure what a consultation call is? Read my blog post to learn about what it’s like to start therapy with me.

T4T Meditations

We all need a space to slow down. Trans and gender expansive folx also deserve a space where they can access meditations unique to their experience and their bodies.

I’ve started a series of T4T meditations created for trans and gender expansive folx. I upload new ones regularly, and post them via my newsletter as well as on my website. These meditations are free of charge, and I provide some accessibility options in each recording. Click here to access all the meditations in one place on my website.

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