You’ve done the talking.
Now go deeper.
IFS, EMDR and Somatic Therapy for Queer and Trans Folx and People who Love Them
It’s hard to be human right now. To heal, you need a space that really gets you.
Welcome! I’m Eula Lys Dunkin (they/them). I'm trans, nonbinary, and embrace a radical, liberatory lens that celebrates trans, gender expansive, queer, poly, kinky folx, those in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and those who love them.
Find about more about who I am, what I offer, and schedule a free consultation call when you’re ready to take the next step towards transformation.
Transformation and healing are possible
You’ve done talk therapy. You’ve spent enough time thinking about your own story.
You’re ready for therapy that goes beyond the talking.
You keep it together on the outside, but inside you’re feeling stuck in the patterns you feel you can’t control.
You’re ready to learn tangible tools to get out of the patterns and build the life you want.
You feel disconnected from yourself. It’s hard to sit with your own feelings.
You’re ready for lasting real, lasting change. You’re ready for freedom and liberation. We’ll do it together.
Therapy that affirms and transforms
Using a queer lens, along with Internal Family Systems, somatic therapy and EMDR, we thoughtfully bear witness to the wisdom and stories that your parts are holding, creating space for deep, healing, and lasting change.
I specialize in:
Trauma: CPTSD, developmental, and intergenerational trauma
Gender expansive communities: Support navigating gender affirming care, supporting marginalization, navigating dysphoria, and accessing gender joy even when times are tough
Identity exploration: Folx exploring their sexuality, gender identity, and relationship with queerness, kink, BDSM and polyamory
Grief: Pain related to loss, life transitions, environmental grief, and the collective grief in the world right now
Anxiety and depression: We’ll go beyond the symptoms to find tangible tools and relief
Therapy for healers: Therapy for therapists and those who work in the healing professions
Book a free consultation call
See my services tab for more information on the therapy, coaching and consultation services I provide.
To book a free 15-minute consultation:
Email me at eula@therapywitheulalys.com
Text or call me at 415-322-5867.
Not sure what a consultation call is? Read my blog post to learn about what it’s like to start therapy with me.
Therapy by us and for us
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I get how exhausting it can be to find supportive spaces where you have the freedom to let your identity expand and evolve. To be able to let down the mask and feel safe enough to truly explore the parts of you that are longing to be seen.
I welcome folx from queer, trans, gender expansive, kink, polyamorous and activist communities. Together, we co-create a space where you can slow down, tune into your self, and experience authentic change.
I use a lens that incorporates somatic therapy and Internal Family Systems. If you don’t know what those modalities are, don’t worry. You don’t need to know anything about them to start therapy with me! -
As a trans, non-binary therapist, I hold how systems of oppression and transphobia impact how gender expansive and queer folx feel about our bodies. I honor where you are moment-by-moment and give your body and mind space to feel.
I hold space where we can name and acknowledge systems of oppression in our therapy space and talk about the stories and experiences our bodies hold because of them.
The systems in which our bodies are living in are not separate from our internal world and ancestral lineages. Liberation oriented therapy honors this ecosystem.
Bottom line: We can be real and talk about the hard stuff within the context of our current and past political realities.
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I hold a space that is consent-based. You are the expert in your own experience and I believe that with enough support, curiosity and care, your system will guide us toward what it needs to heal.
I'm not a therapist who aims to fix you or find solutions. Instead, we create a space where you can learn how to be with your emotions and body sensations, and reconnect to your own inner strength and agency.
T4T Meditations
We all need a space to slow down. Trans and gender expansive folx also deserve a space where they can access meditations unique to their experience and their bodies.
I’ve started a series of T4T meditations created for trans and gender expansive folx. I upload new ones regularly, and post them via my newsletter as well as on my website. These meditations are free of charge, and I provide some accessibility options in each recording.
Click here to access all the meditations in one place on my website.
